The red flags are there
They’ve been there for awhile
But with no support system, they go unnoticed
From avoiding places because of the memories associated with it
To avoiding attending certain activities because there are individuals there who closely resemble the abuser
From withdrawing from certain social activities because social interactions no longer are as enjoyable (even they’re desperately needed)
To feeling completely isolated, feeling like you’ve abandoned
From trying with every breathe to avoid going near certain things, such as anything that can be deemed addictive, because once that bridge is crossed…
To constantly scanning your surroundings (and people) because once was enough
If all you see is the image, the shell
But haven’t made attempts to dig below the surface
When you judge based on what you SEE
But don’t want to help fix the problem behind the behaviour…
Island of Misfit Mamas 