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The Narcissist: The Aftermath

Time has passed Bridges have been burnt But it’s brought hindsight Things that I didn’t notice before have now surfaced Things I suspected have inadvertently been proven And it started with a narcissist attempting to mentally destroy me But something else happened In his attempt to take me down, he exposed a glitch A glitchContinue reading “The Narcissist: The Aftermath”

Reset. Readjust. Restart. Refocus.

There have been many times over the past year where I have had to start over. Each time, I failed. Not because of something that I was doing wrong, but someone kept getting in the way. A brain fog had formed. It was put there by the narcissist. The mental and psychological abuse that heContinue reading “Reset. Readjust. Restart. Refocus.”

Enjoy the Silence

The last 5 days have been a whirlwind. From some much needed family time to publicly outing the narcissist to my son getting sick, it seemed nonstop. Tonight, it’s settled. Even though it’s just a moment in time. There’s a quiet that is currently setting in. The narcissist has tried taking me down. He’s notContinue reading “Enjoy the Silence”

Dreams

They say your dreams are an extension of your daily life, making it’s way into your subconscious at night. A way to make sense of things. Last night, I had a dream. It was a weird one (which isn’t unusual). The topic wasn’t an unusual one, either, as it’s kinda a recurring dream. The scenarioContinue reading “Dreams”

‘The Dog Whistle’

If you’ve never had the displeasure of dealing with a narcissist, they have a secret weapon they like to use: it’s termed ‘the dog whistle’. A narcissist makes it a point to learn things that will set you off. At some point, they will take that knowledge and use it to elicit a reaction, usuallyContinue reading “‘The Dog Whistle’”

The Narc Ten Commandments

If you’ve ever had a long term encounter or relationship with a narcissist, you’re more than likely to walk away the relationship a changed person. I’ve had the displeasure of dealing with a narcissist for over a year and we’ve gotten to the point where there’s a mutual, unspoken dislike of each other. While weContinue reading “The Narc Ten Commandments”