Limits are being tested Boundaries are being pushed I am very well aware that you do not like being ‘grey rocked’, given the silent treatment. But it’s what you’re getting. I’ve watched as you change around your gameplan, only for you to fall back your old favorites. You’ve thrown in a ‘new play’, but IContinue reading “The Answer is Still No”
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Change in Play?
I was informed one of the best ways to deal with a narcissist is to ‘gray rock’ them. I started doing so several months ago. Unfortunately, he started clueing in that I was ‘ignoring’ his tactics. So, as a result, he started ramping up his efforts. For the past two weeks, there was a changeContinue reading “Change in Play?”
The Evil Queen
I am very well aware that I give off a certain aura, one that can be misinterpreted. From the outset, one can say that I’m too sweet, naive and innocent. Turns out, they’re wrong. The narcissist kinda picked up on it, but he hasn’t seen the full picture yet. He got a taste of itContinue reading “The Evil Queen”
Reset. Readjust. Restart. Refocus.
There have been many times over the past year where I have had to start over. Each time, I failed. Not because of something that I was doing wrong, but someone kept getting in the way. A brain fog had formed. It was put there by the narcissist. The mental and psychological abuse that heContinue reading “Reset. Readjust. Restart. Refocus.”
Change?
There’s been a change in the atmosphere. Something is happening, but I don’t know what it will be. Change is coming. The tension that is now floating through the building has reached a new height. I know I’ve crossed a line with the narcissist. I did the unthinkable: I told the world what he wasContinue reading “Change?”
Enjoy the Silence
The last 5 days have been a whirlwind. From some much needed family time to publicly outing the narcissist to my son getting sick, it seemed nonstop. Tonight, it’s settled. Even though it’s just a moment in time. There’s a quiet that is currently setting in. The narcissist has tried taking me down. He’s notContinue reading “Enjoy the Silence”
The Aftermath
The panic attacks have started again. Today was the first time I’ve had a MAJOR one. It came out of nowhere. I’m just sitting with my son and it hits. A debilitating one. It took a few before I could move again because of how bad it was. The past 36 hours have been rough.Continue reading “The Aftermath”
The Flying Monkeys Bluff
I came. I saw. I called the bluff. You may not have been in the room while things were being debated, but you were sitting upstairs eavesdropping. You still continued to do so well after ‘the debate’ ended. Your flying monkey tried her best to defend you. I still called you out. She still refusedContinue reading “The Flying Monkeys Bluff”
The Real You
You snuck up in me I believe you had me pegged before I knew the real you. You saw something in me that you knew could get you in trouble. Right from the beginning, you started testing the limits. Once I caught on, it was too late. By that point, you had gone full force.Continue reading “The Real You”
Same Old Song
I see you I see through you I see through how your changing how you use your ‘dog whistle’ You can try to change things around all you want, to throw me off You try to make it look like you’re being unpredictable. But you’re not. It’ll always be the same play, same technique, sameContinue reading “Same Old Song”
Island of Misfit Mamas 